Stronger Relationships, Greater Intimacy,
Real Progress
Online psychosexual and relationship therapy for individuals and couples. Together, we'll address your challenges in sex, intimacy, and relationships and explore opportunities for deeper connection.
"Marie-Lou was incredibly kind and non-judgemental, which helped enormously."
Marie-Lou Steul COSRT Registered Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Book your FREE 30-minute introductory session today
Here’s a brief outline of what we'll cover in your FREE no-obligation 30-minute session:
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Explore What’s Really Going On: We’ll take the time to understand what you’re facing and what might be affecting your relationship, intimacy, or sense of connection.
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Identify What You Want to Focus On: Together, we’ll explore what you want from therapy and the goals you’d like to work towards.
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Start Your Journey: This is an opportunity to take the first step toward understanding your relationship and your intimacy in a supportive, shame-free environment.
Let’s chat about your needs and whether I’m the right therapist for you. Use the link below to choose your slot.
Embrace communication, strengthen connections, and foster intimacy
Do you find yourself facing challenges in your relationship or struggling with intimacy? Perhaps you feel disconnected from your partner or uncertain about how to navigate sexual difficulties. If you’re looking for ways to address these concerns, support is available.
I’m Marie-Lou Steul, a qualified and registered clinical sexologist, psychosexual and relationship therapist. I help individuals and couples achieve greater intimacy, confidence, and harmony in their relationships.
Over the past several years, I have helped clients with sexual function and relationship issues. Drawing on my experience in renowned settings, including the NHS’s Dean Street Clinic in London and private practice, I have delivered transformative results for my clients and would love to do the same for you! And with a free, no-obligation, 30-minute introductory session, you can ease into it to see if therapy is really for you.
Services & fees
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Individual Sex
Therapy
Individual sex therapy aims to address sexual concerns and enhance intimacy. I offer a non-judgmental space to explore sexual issues, improve satisfaction, and foster a healthier sexual relationship with yourself and others. Explore the sexual dysfunction issues I offer support for in the section below.
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Couples
Therapy
I provide a supportive environment for you and your partner to address concerns in your romantic relationship and help improve how you communicate with each other. I work with both married and non-married couples. Let's navigate these challenges together to start strengthening your relationship.
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Relationship
Therapy
Relationship therapy applies when you are not in a couple, but still in an intimate or serious relationship, such as poly-structures, situationships, or long-standing friendships. This allows for alternative structures to be included and broadens the scope of support you still have access to.
£99 per session for individuals
£119 per session for couples and relationships
All sessions take place online
Issues I can help you with
These are the typical issues I can help you manage and resolve, either as an individual or as partners.
Sexual Dysfunction Issues
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Unreliable Erections
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Premature Ejaculation
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Delayed Ejaculation
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Painful Sex
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Difficulty Achieving Orgasm
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Low Desire
Couples, Relationship and Intimacy Issues
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Desire Discrepancy
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Dealing with Infidelity
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Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
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Sexual Trauma
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Working with Kinks and Fetishes
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Neurodiversity and Relationship Issues
Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity
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Navigating gender identity and transition with sex
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LGBTQIA+ relationship and intimacy support
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Polyamory and consensual non-monogamy
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Managing stigma and rejection
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Aligning preferences with relationship diversity
What my clients say about me
Meet your therapist
COSRT Registered Clinical Sexologist, Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Hi there,
My name is Marie-Lou Steul. Nice to meet you!
Are you ready to talk about your sex life? With experience helping couples and individuals break through barriers, here is what you need to know:
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Expert You Can Trust: From London's renowned 56 Dean Street Sexual Health Clinic to private practice, I've helped my clients overcome their most intimate challenges with proven expertise that blends NHS experience with personalised private care.
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Qualified and Registered: As a College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists registered therapist with training from the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology, I bring deep expertise to every session. Your therapeutic journey to better sex deserves nothing less.
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Breakthrough Specialist: Whether through individual sex therapy, relationship therapy, or couples work, I help transform disconnection into desire, anxiety into curiosity. Your story of struggle can become one of exploration and satisfaction.
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Tailored to You: Adhering to a pluralistic approach to therapy, I use interventions uniquely adapted to you. No cookie-cutter solutions – just strategies that create real breakthroughs, tailored to your needs.
I strive to leave every client better than when they found me. So are you ready to give it a go? Click the button below to book your free, no-obligation 30-minute introductory session.
FAQs
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What happens during a session?People new to therapy often don’t know what to expect in terms of structure, communication, or what they need to do. During a therapy session, we typically start by discussing what’s brought you to therapy and what you hope to achieve. The structure of sessions can vary, but generally, we’ll explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours to understand underlying issues. In psychosexual therapy, we may also discuss your sexual health and relationships in a respectful, non-judgemental way. Sessions are interactive, and you can guide the conversation with your concerns. Over time, we’ll develop strategies to help you manage or resolve these issues. This also applies when working with couple or relationship needs.
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How much should I share?Clients can feel unsure about how much personal information to disclose and whether they need to share everything to get the most out of therapy. In therapy, the amount you share is entirely up to you. You don’t need to disclose everything at once or share more than you’re comfortable with. Therapy is a space for gradual exploration. The more you open up, the more effective therapy can be, but it’s important to go at your own pace. As a psychosexual therapist, I respect your boundaries and encourage you to share at a level that feels safe and beneficial for you.
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Therapy goals vs. expectations?Clients might be unclear about how to set realistic goals for therapy and whether their expectations for outcomes are achievable within the timeframe they imagine. Therapy is a journey, not a quick fix. Setting clear, achievable goals is important, but it’s also essential to be realistic about the time it may take. People often expect immediate results, but it’s normal for progress to be gradual. In my practice, we’ll work together to set goals and regularly assess your progress, ensuring we’re on track. Some changes, particularly in deep emotional or relational work, take time, but every step forward is progress.
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Is “couples therapy” the same as “marriage counselling”?Not exactly, but you’re in the right place. While I’m not a marriage counsellor by title, I’m a qualified and accredited sex, relationship and couples therapist. That means I’m trained to support people through a wide range of relationship challenges, including those that come up in marriage. A lot of people search for “marriage counselling” when what they’re really looking for is help with communication, trust, intimacy, or navigating big life transitions as a couple — all of which are part of couples and relationship therapy. So even if the language is different, the support you’re looking for is very much available. I work with individuals and couples — whether you’re married, living together, or in a different kind of relationship — to help you move forward with more clarity and connection.
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Is online therapy therapy as effective as in-person?People may struggle to understand the benefits of online therapy compared to traditional face-to-face sessions, and which option is more effective for them. Online therapy offers flexibility and convenience, making it an excellent choice for those with busy schedules or those who can’t access in-person sessions. It also offers the ability to access therapy whilst still remaining in the familiar and safe environment of one's own home. However, some individuals may find in-person therapy offers a deeper sense of connection. The choice depends on your preferences and comfort level. Both methods are effective, but if you're unsure, book your free 30-minute no-obligation introductory session and see how it feels for you.
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How do I determine if a therapist is a good fit for me?People often struggle to gauge whether a therapist’s personality, style, and expertise align with their needs. A good fit in therapy goes beyond qualifications; it’s about comfort and trust. The therapist’s style should feel supportive and non-judgemental. You may want to ask about their experience with the issues you’re facing and their therapeutic approach. In my practice, I ensure a collaborative, empathetic environment where you can feel safe to explore your concerns. I also like my clients to feel like they're speaking with a real person and not just talking to a professional hidden behind a screen. If, after a few sessions, you don’t feel heard or understood, it’s okay to look for a different therapist who aligns more with your needs.
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What do all the titles for professionals mean?The variety of professional titles (e.g., counsellor, psychotherapist, psychologist, psychiatrist) can confuse clients about who to choose. Therapists can have various titles, which can be confusing. Here's a quick summary to help you; Psychotherapists, like me, are trained to provide in-depth therapy for emotional and relational concerns. Counsellors, have less training and typically offer shorter-term, more solution-focused support. Psychologists have advanced degrees in mental health and may conduct assessments. Psychiatrists are medical doctors who can prescribe medication. It’s important to check the therapist’s credentials and whether they are registered with a recognised body, such as COSRT for psychosexual therapy, to ensure they have the appropriate training and expertise for your needs.
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How do I evaluate my progress in therapy?People may not understand how to measure if therapy is “working” or what signs indicate progress versus stagnation in their sessions. Progress in therapy is not always linear, but there are signs to look for. You may notice you’re becoming more self-aware, managing your emotions better, or making positive changes in your behaviour. It’s important to check in with your therapist regularly to assess progress. In psychosexual therapy, you might notice improvements in intimacy, communication, or sexual health. If you feel stuck, we can re-evaluate the approach or goals to ensure therapy continues to be beneficial.
Still have questions? Send me a question using the form below or book a free no-obligation 30-minute introductory session by clicking the button below.